
Prayer and Lent: A Relationship, Not a Wish List
In this video reflection, Amy Florian shares a deeply personal story that reshapes how we understand prayer — not as a way of getting what we want, but as a relationship that changes us.

In this video reflection, Amy Florian shares a deeply personal story that reshapes how we understand prayer — not as a way of getting what we want, but as a relationship that changes us.

En esta reflexión en video, Amy Florian comparte una historia profundamente personal que transforma nuestra comprensión de la oración: no como una manera de obtener lo que queremos, sino como una relación que nos cambia.

Instead, Jesus promises that if we ask for anything, we will receive “good things”. In other words, we will receive what we need, not necessarily what we want.

Más bien, Jesús promete que, si pedimos, recibiremos “cosas buenas”. En otras palabras, recibiremos lo que necesitamos, no necesariamente lo que queremos.

Liturgy, our prayers, and our obedience are important, absolutely, but they are not the ultimate point. They are the means by which we are fed so we can enter into something deeper, enabling us to bring in the outcast, feed the hungry, defend the powerless, stand against injustice, and live as Jesus did.

Son los medios por los cuales somos alimentados para poder entrar en algo más profundo, que nos capacita para acoger al excluido, alimentar al hambriento, defender al indefenso, enfrentar la injusticia y vivir como vivió Jesús.

Perhaps hope, instead of being based on circumstances or on human motivations, is based on the “one who is true.”

And because time is short, Advent and Christmas remind me that just as Mary carried and bore Godself, I am to work tirelessly, using my gifts and talents to the full, to continue the work of birthing God into the world.

As a present-day disciple, I want God to increase my faith. But that means it’s up to me to open doors, take down walls and barriers, and tap into the ever-present love of the God who longs for me.

Perhaps this week we can all pray for a good interior housecleaning, calling on the help of Jesus, the saints and angels, all those living and dead whom we love, and even a good therapist!