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Daily Scripture, May 31, 2025

Feast of the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary

Scripture:

Zephaniah 3:14-18a, or Romans 12:9-16
Luke 1:39-56

Reflection:

Happy Feast of the Visitation of the Blessed Virgin Mary!

In today’s passage from the Gospel of Luke (Luke 1:39-56), Mary, after hearing the news from the angel that she would give birth to the Messiah, traveled “in haste” from Nazareth to the house of her cousin Elizabeth and her husband, Zechariah, which was in a village in the hill country of Judea. When Mary arrived, she found her elderly cousin also pregnant.  Elizabeth’s greeting to Mary, “filled with the Holy Spirit, cried out in a loud voice, “Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.”

In 1987, I was a senior in high school and on retreat with my classmates in the hills above Malibu Beach, California. Wow, what a tough area for a teen to have to go on retreat!  Truly, it was a great weekend, though.  We discussed God and how he related to us as young men in the world, and as we played games and ate good food, and really had nothing to worry about.

Until it was time to prepare to receive the Holy Eucharist.

We were told to go to confession before mass. All the while standing in line I was thinking, “Let’s see… I can’t tell him that or that, oooh, and certainly not that!” I was so embarrassed of the things I’d done. I just couldn’t tell anyone… but especially not a priest! I was so ashamed of so very much, the least of which was that this was the first time I’d be going to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation through all of high-school.

Well, I finally went in.  I was honest and embarrassed, but the priest didn’t seem surprised or put off by anything I said.  He gave me my penance, which consisted of one Our Father and 3 Hail Marys, and then to think about what I’d done.  I diligently prayed those prayers, thought about what I’d done, and then I thought something else:

“Confession is silly. 
I don’t need a middleman.
I’m just going to tell God directly.
That’ll be good enough.”

I’ll bet I’m not alone in that thought…  And I’ll bet I’m not alone in admitting that, at the time, I didn’t realize how so very silly that statement really was.

Fast-forward about 25 years, and I had not been to confession since that retreat.  But I’d grown incredibly weary of trying to ignore God’s call to the Sacrament of Reconciliation. And I was so broken I didn’t think anyone could put me back together again. But, friends, let me tell you something – I mustered up all my courage and went.

I was in the confessional for what seemed like a half-hour, and when it was done I went to perform my penance.  This time it was also one Our Father, and three Hail Marys, but I was directed to go and sit with the Blessed Sacrament, quietly, and ponder the words to those prayers as I offered them.  I’d prayed them so many times, though! What new things could there be for me to think about? 

Well, at that moment, I became the silly one…

Here are the three parts of the Lord’s Prayer that stung me most.

“Our Father…”                                    This means that everyone is my sister or brother.
                                                            Even that beggar on the freeway off-ramp and
                                                            the thief that stole my identity.
“Thy will be done…”                           This means I must let go of my agenda and embrace
                                                            what God wants.  But I want what I want!
“Forgive us our trespasses,”               Uh-oh. So, I’m telling God that I expect to be
as we forgive those                             forgiven, but *only* to the extent to which I’m willing
who trespass against us.”                   to forgive that person that hit me? The person who
                                                            lied? Or stole from me? Betrayed me… destroyed me
                                                            to my core?
Pretty big thoughts. 

But it was in my reflecting on the Ave Maria – the Hail Mary – the simple prayer to our Mother of Sorrows, the Mater Dolorosa, that hit me most deeply.

“Hail, Mary, full of grace.
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb – Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us,
sinners,
now,
and at the hour of our death. Amen.”

Which part of that prayer, first uttered by St. Elizabeth, stands out most to you?  For me, it was these two lines: “The Lord is with thee.  Pray for us, sinners.”

We, sinners, who need all the help we can get, have it — if only we would ask. 

That day, this prayer we read about on the beautiful Feast of the Visitation of the Virgin Mary reminded me that I’m not alone, even if I feel like I am, even if I want to be.  If only I would just tear down my walls and open my heart, I’d have the space for  God, my Father, Jesus, my Brother, the Holy Spirit, my very breath.

Well, after I pondered all this, and more, I experienced the most amazing thing… Friends, there is nothing I’ve felt more powerfully than when I’ve received Jesus during communion after receiving the Sacrament of Reconciliation. The intimate and powerful meeting with God is amplified so deeply when we acknowledge our failings and our brokenness, and then get to actually hear someone tell us, “Your sins are forgiven.”

The peace and lightness are palpable, and staggering.

Now I hit the confessional pretty regularly… and boy do I need it.  And the Ave Maria is one of my favorite prayers.  But perhaps when I next pray the beautiful Hail Mary I’ll be reminded that she’s waiting to visit me, to help me, to ask God to be with me when I’m most in need. 

Like right now. 
And tomorrow. 
And at the hour of my death. Amen.

Peace and love to you, today and forever.

Paul Puccinelli is Director of Liturgy & Music at St. Rita Parish in Sierra Madre, California, and a member of the retreat team at Mater Dolorosa Retreat Center.

Daily Scripture, April 1, 2025

Scripture:Ezekiel 47:1-9,12John 5:1-16Reflection:Twice I’ve stood close to the power and majesty of large waterfalls—at Niagara Falls and in the Colorado mountains. I vividly remember the enormous volume and thundering sounds » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 31, 2025

Scripture:Isaiah 65:17-21John 4:43-54Reflection:The Responsorial psalm in today’s readings captures so aptly today’s gospel:“I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me.”Jesus had reproached the people who followed him with » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 30, 2025

Fourth Sunday of LentScripture:Joshua 5:9a, 10-122 Corinthians 5:17-21Luke 15:1-3, 11-32Reflection:We all know the story of the Prodigal Son, who essentially proclaimed his father dead, took his inheritance, and shamed his » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 29, 2025

Scripture:Hosea 6:1-6Luke 18:9-14Reflection: O God, be merciful to me a sinner. –Luke 18:13Lent is a time of the liturgical year that requires me to reflect on my journey to becoming the » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 28, 2025

Scripture:Hosea 14:2-10Mark 12:28-34Reflection:The two greatest commandments: Love God and Love our Neighbor!  The first is pretty much a given, loving God who loves us unconditionally is really a no-brainer!  How » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 27, 2025

Scripture:Jeremiah 7:23-28Luke 11:14-23Reflection:What does the Kingdom of God look like?  Today’s gospel tells us – or better, it shows us.  “Jesus was driving out a demon that was mute, and » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 26, 2025

Scripture:Deuteronomy 4:1, 5-9Matthew 5:17-19Reflection:Amnesia: A medical condition characterized by a partial or total loss of memories, facts, information and experiences.In today’s scripture selections from the Book of Deuteronomy and the » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 25, 2025

Solemnity of the Annunciation of Our LordScripture:Isaiah 7:10-14; 8:10Hebrews 10:4-10Luke 1:26-38Reflection:One of the commentaries for today’s Solemnity of the Annunciation reminds us of how we often assume that Mary’s inner » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 24, 2025

Scripture:2 Kings 5:1-15b,Luke 4:24-30Reflection:Welcoming JesusA wonderful experience in my life was kneeling at the altar in the Church of the Annunciation in Nazareth, where Jesus took on our nature. Written » Continue Reading.

Daily Scripture, March 23, 2025

Third Sunday of LentScripture:Exodus 3:1-8a, 13-151 Corinthians 10:1-6, 10-12Luke 13:1-9Reflection:In Sunday’s Gospel reading (Luke 13:1-9), Jesus tells a parable about a barren fig tree. The owner of the fig tree » Continue Reading.

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