Scripture:
Genesis 18:1-10a
Colossians 1:24-28
Luke 10:38-42
Reflection:
The Gospel reading for this Sunday (Luke 10:38-42) teaches a lesson I often need to hear. Our reading is about a visit Jesus makes to a village where a woman named Martha welcomes Him. Marta has a sister named Mary. And so Martha is busy attending to the needs of Jesus along with other guests. But Mary sits at Jesus’ feet, listening to Him. When Martha sees this, she complains to Jesus: “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving?” and Jesus replies, with an answer I’m sure Martha was not expecting, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things. There is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”
Now many of us, especially those who grew up with siblings, may be very sympathetic to Martha’s complaint. After all, at a big event, it’s usually “all hands on deck.” For me, Jesus is not choosing sides between working and not working. He calls us to action, otherwise we wouldn’t have the parable of the Good Samaritan we heard last week. But He also calls us to prayer, as He often went by Himself to pray.
I think the “better part” that Jesus is talking about is related to what He says to Martha: “You are anxious and worried about many things.” The “better part” that Mary chose was not so much resting instead of working, but resting in Jesus. Martha was so anxious and worried in her busyness that she could not listen to Jesus nor abide in His love for her.
There are times when I can get so caught up in worrying about what I need to do, or get anxious about how I’m doing, or whether I’m making too many mistakes, or if I’m doing enough, or if people appreciate what I’m doing, or so many other thoughts of self-absorption, that I forget to trust in Jesus’ love for me, which prevents His love shining through me to others.
When I can trust in His love for me, and let go of all those concerns about me, then I can do what He calls me to do, and serve Him and the world that He loves. The founder of the Passionists, St. Paul of the Cross said it well in one of his letters: “Do the things you have to do. Work, but without haste and anxiety. Work diligently, but with peace of heart and a quiet spirit, remaining in the presence of God.”
When we trust in the love of God, we are able to show the hospitality that Abraham and Sarah showed to the three visitors that came by in our first reading from Genesis (18:1-10a). We can even rejoice in our sufferings for the sake of the gospel, like St. Paul, in his letter to the Colossians (1:24-28).
These words came to me as I was reflecting on these readings: Listen-Trust-Love-Serve.
Fr. Phil Paxton, CP, is the Pastor of Holy Family Parish in Birmingham, and St. Mary’s Parish in Fairfield, Alabama. He is the Local Superior of the Passionist Community in Birmingham, Alabama.