Scripture:
2 Corinthians 5:14-21
Matthew 5:33-37
Reflection:
The Mission of Reconciliation
Today’s reading from Saint Paul reminds us that God reconciled us to himself through Christ. This means our past sins are no longer held against us. We’re not only offered a fresh start with God, but we’re also given a vital mission: to be ministers and ambassadors of reconciliation to others.
The Challenges of Reconciliation
Achieving reconciliation in our world can be incredibly difficult. Sometimes, we’re lucky, and reconciliation helps mend friendships or family relationships, allowing for a clean slate. However, we often forgive but struggle to forget past hurts. Or, even if we offer forgiveness and are willing to move on, the other person may not reciprocate. True, full reconciliation is a tough road.
Delivering the Message
So, what does this “message of reconciliation” look like in practice?
- Offer forgiveness, even if it’s not reciprocated. You can choose to forgive someone, even if they don’t forgive you in return.
- Sometimes, reconciliation means distance. Two people might forgive each other, but decide it’s best for their reconciliation to keep their distance. For instance, after a major conflict, siblings might forgive each other but agree to limit their interactions to avoid future arguments.
- Even when forgiveness seems impossible, don’t give up entirely. Think about a long-standing family feud. While full reconciliation might not happen overnight, small steps, like acknowledging the other person’s perspective, can be a form of peacemaking.
Embracing Peacemaking
Perhaps the answer lies in one of the Beatitudes: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God.” Jesus calls us to be God’s ministers and ambassadors for peace whenever we have the opportunity. And what sounds more like persistent peacemaking than patiently working towards reconciliation? God has reconciled with every single one of us forever. Can we try a little harder to add a few more people to our own reconciliation list?
Jack Dermody is President of Share Our Gifts, Inc., a Passionist alumni organization dedicated to assisting those who live in poverty; he is also editor of CrossRoads, the Passionist Alumni Association’s newsletter.