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Mater Dolorosa Passionist Retreat Center
Making Monthly Payments for your Weekend Retreat
Would you like the convenience of not having to deal with your donation when you are on your weekend retreat? Making a recurring monthly payment toward your weekend retreat allows you to plan ahead. Or if you find yourself unable to contribute when you are on retreat, this is a good way to spread the donation over a period of time.
Stations of the Cross Renovation Project
Would you like to be a part of a magnificent improvement of our beloved Mater Dolorosa Stations of the Cross?
2015 will mark the 50th year that the beautiful, life size Stations of the Cross at Mater Dolorosa have provided a place of solitude for retreatants to open their hearts and minds to feel the healing power of God. We invite you to become part of this landmark celebration by helping us renovate the Stations for their 50th anniversary!
The rugged elements of the San Gabriel foothills have taken a toll on the Stations’ infrastructure and surrounding environment. Scarce resources are most often directed toward the maintenance and improvement of the Retreat Center which houses retreatants when they attend a retreat. In addition, 50 years of retreatant use has led to the need to refurbish the Stations so our children and grandchildren will have the same prayerful opportunity for the next 50 years.
For more information, please watch this special video below.
To make a donation in support of our Stations Renovation Project, please scroll down.
The Stations of the Cross, which follow the path of Christ from Pontius Pilate’s praetorium to Christ’s tomb, have been an important devotion for Catholics for centuries. The Stations of the Cross are used at every weekend retreat, on Good Friday, and by local church groups, high school and grade school groups and all visitors to Mater Dolorosa. The Mater Dolorosa Stations are life size and the path through the Stations covers the same distance as Christ’s last walk in Jerusalem, just a little less than a quarter of a mile. Passing though the Stations today requires a keen eye and steady foot because of the deterioration of the pavement. The Stations are virtually inaccessible to handicapped and disabled persons. Even though we are an overnight retreat facility, the Stations can only be safely visited during daylight hours.
The design for the renovation will create a unique spiritual setting, with places to rest, pray, reflect and enjoy the natural surroundings. The existing walkways have deteriorated and will be replaced. The slopes will be eased. Permanent benches will be added and new lighting will showcase the beauty of the Stations and allow for nighttime use.
A new Garden of Gethsemane area will be developed among the 90 year old olive trees just to the north of the Stations pathway. The Garden of Gethsemane will become the starting point for meditation prior to experiencing the Way of the Cross. A bronze sculpture of Jesus and his “Agony in the Garden”, along with sculptures of disciple figures of Peter, James and John have been commissioned with Christopher Slatoff, a noted sculptor.
The Passionist Cemetery which is barely visible at this time will be part of this amazing renovation project. This is an opportunity for us to honor our beloved Passionists who dedicated their lives to preaching the Passion of Jesus Christ and creating such a beautiful place for us to pray and spend time with God.
View additional photos: Photo Page – Stations Renovation.pdf
Station 13 – “The Body of Jesus is Taken Down from the Cross” will be dedicated to retreatants who make a donation to help with the renovation.
You can be part of this historic renovation at Mater Dolorosa in several ways.
- Sponsor a station
- Become a station maintenance endowment sponsor
- Sponsor the bronze sculpture of Peter, James or John in the garden with Jesus
- Make a donation toward the Retreatant Station #13
Ways to Give
- Make an individual cash donation.
- Have your employer match your gift.
- Give a gift of stock/appreciated securities.
- Get retreatants from your Parish involved.
Monetary Commitments for Stations Renovation – To date, half of the total projected cost for the stations renovation has been raised. $375,000 has been raised through a grant from the Dan Murphy Foundation, donations from our 2013 Harvest on the Hill Event, and early sponsors of particular stations. $10,000 has been raised from an individual sponsor for station maintenance endowment.
Station Sponsorship Opportunities are available for each of the Stations as follows:
Station Sponsor Amount: $30,000
Station Maintenance Endowment: $10,000
Monetary Commitments for the new Garden of Gethsemane
A donor has come forward to sponsor the cost of the Jesus figure for the garden. Additional donors are being sought for the disciple figures of Peter, James and John. These sponsorships will be $65,000 for each disciple.
Permanent donor acknowledgements will be made for both sponsorship and maintenance endowment commitments in the stations environment.
On behalf of the Passionist Community and staff, the Mater Dolorosa Board of Directors, and the many retreatants and friends who benefit from these beautiful Stations of the Cross, we extend to you our deep, personal thanks for your support. May God bless you and all your loved ones.
Stations of the Cross donations can be made by check and sent to:
Mater Dolorosa Passionist Retreat Center
Stations Renovation Project
700 N Sunnyside Avenue
Sierra Madre, CA 91024
Or, drop off a check in person at the Retreat Center.
If you wish to donate stock/appreciated securities, please contact the Development Office.
If you have any questions or would like additional information, please call the Development Office at 626-355-7188, Ext. 103 or email [email protected].
Make a Donation to Mater Dolorosa
Make a secure online donation to Mater Dolorosa by scrolling down to our donation form.
Download and mail our Ways to Give Donor Form.
Please consider Mater Dolorosa Passionist Retreat Center in your will or estate plan. Click here to learn how to complete your bequest to Mater Dolorosa.
The Retreat Experience
What is a Retreat?
A retreat is a personal encounter with God through a balance of communal prayer, inspirational talks, silence and solitude, natural beauty and sacramental grace. This sacred time brings renewal for your body, mind and spirit.
Why is making a retreat important?
“Come away by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.” Mark 6:31
Even if these words of Jesus were spoken directly to us today, many of us would have a myriad of reasons of why we could not get away. We are overcommitted in many areas of our life and can’t imagine taking a few days to make a retreat. However, if you are honest with yourself, you know that you could make the time.
In the simplicity of the retreat experience, we connect with our true self. For people of faith, this time is not a luxury, it is a necessity.
Weekend retreats at Mater Dolorosa are silent retreats. Why do we enter into silence? Silence renews us and provides a refreshed perspective on the condition of our life. In silence, we are less likely to be able to hide from our problems, and by practicing silence, we nurture our listening skills and are better able to hear the quiet voice of God.
In the book of Hosea, God invites us “to come to the desert to pray and He will speak to our hearts.” In the stillness of the sacred grounds of Mater Dolorosa, our spirit is nourished with the solitude of silence, meditation and prayer.
Why Support Mater Dolorosa?
Because…You Make A Difference!
The Passionist-preached retreat ministry has continued since the first retreat in 1926, which was held under the shade of a giant Moreton Bag Fig tree. This is a powerful testament that the retreat ministry at Mater Dolorosa is an important and necessary ministry to the many men and women who come to the mountain every year to attend a retreat.
A retreat at Mater Dolorosa offers solitude and silence, a time to stand apart from the pressures of the day ~ to reflect, to pray, and to be restored by the love of Christ.
Contributions to Mater Dolorosa help us to continue to provide a spiritual sanctuary where people can leave behind the demands of every day life and renew their faith in a more meaningful way.
Accomplishments
Donor support has helped Mater Dolorosa achieve the following successes:
- Offer a unique and wonderful opportunity for spiritual growth and development since 1926.
- Uphold the long-held tradition of welcoming all who wish to attend a Passionist-preached weekend retreat regardless of their financial ability to pay the recommended donation. More than 3,000 men and women attend a weekend retreat at Mater Dolorosa each year.
- Help subsidize High School student Kairos retreats to students in underserved communities. Two high schools were assisted in 2011-2012 fiscal year.
- Add new retreat programs such as Spanish-speaking married couples in October, 2011 and 2012; and a Young Adult retreat in June of 2012.
- Retreat Center grounds available to 3,500 visitors on Good Friday to walk and pray our uniquely beautiful Stations of the Cross.
- Continue a hosted program ministry that reflects the
Passionist mission of hospitality. Hosted groups include religious communities, school faculty, Catholic high school students, Archdiocesan programs, theological seminary programs, and Ecumenical retreats for various churches and organizations. - Approximately 125 hosted groups utilize the beauty and serenity of the Mater Dolorosa retreat center and grounds each year.
- Maintenance, repair, enhancements and upgrades to the retreat center and grounds.
Your support is needed more than ever before to ensure the retreat center has sufficient resources to carry out its mission, to offer Passionist-preached retreats, and to continue our long-held traditions well into the future.
Make a secure online donation to Mater Dolorosa.
Download our Ways to Give Donor Form.
Click here for our Century Club donation form
Click here for our Sponsorship Circle donation form.
Please consider Mater Dolorosa Passionist Retreat Center in your will or estate plan. Click here to learn how to complete your bequest to Mater Dolorosa.
For more information on supporting Mater Dolorosa please call:
Jeanne Warlick, Director of Development
626 355 7188, ext 103 or
email: [email protected]
Host Your Program at Mater Dolorosa
Mater Dolorosa welcomes many groups and organizations who use our facility to host their own program. These groups are usually scheduled during the week, but occasionally weekends are available as well. Hosted groups include:
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Members of religious communities, priests and clergy
Religious organizations of many denominations -
Parish Staffs
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Archdiocesan organizations
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Seminarians
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Deacons
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School faculties and students
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Ministers and church boards
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Campus ministers
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Youth organizations
Available for day use or for overnight:
For rates, availability or to make a reservation, contact Janet Selinske, 626-355-7188 x107, or email [email protected], Monday through Friday 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
We invite you to scroll through the pictures to see our grounds and accommodations!
- Founder’s Hall accommodates groups up to 110
- De Loor Hall accommodates groups up to 80
- Possenti Hall accommodates groups up to 250
The library is a quiet reading area that also accommodates 6-8 people.
Delicious meals are served in the historic dining room, which accommodates 110.
Overnight accommodations include 67 single bedrooms and 21 double bedrooms,
all with private baths.
The veranda offers an ideal setting for smaller groups or a quiet space to read and reflect.
Stations of the Cross
“God’s Footprints to Calvary”
Stations of the Cross at Mater Dolorosa Retreat Center ~ Adapted from Fr. Claudio Piccinini, CP
The Passionists welcome you to join in Devotion of the Stations of the Cross.
First Station: Jesus is Condemned to Death
Why did they do such a thing to You? What did You do to deserve such a punishment? But as I look around today, we have similar situations. Minorities are oppressed—denied their freedom and human rights. Men and women are trafficked across international borders and enslaved for personal gains. There are people hungry and those who have too much. The Pilates of today are still condemning Jesus present in each one of us.
Dear Jesus, let me see beyond the injustice and wrongdoings of society. Let not bitterness and anger take over my heart. May I be counted among those committed and courageous enough to uphold the truth.
Second Station: Jesus Carries His Cross
My daily life is filled with problems, confusions and doubts. Sometimes I feel so pressured with people who demand all my energies. It is difficult to accept their demands and I feel like rebelling. I want to claim my rights. Why were You silent when they made You carry Your cross? Why didn’t you fight back? What are You telling me? Where are You leading me? I want to know.
Dear Jesus, give me patience. Let me trust You. I might not always understand what is happening to me and around me. Let me lean on You as we walk along the way. Let me be open to what the love of neighbor may ask of me.
Third Station: Jesus Falls the First Time
I should have said no to the temptation. Instead, look at me. It is difficult to admit to being so weak. I have made a fool of myself. I’m so ashamed and depressed. I am hurting. Why am I not able to resist pressure? And what about the others? My actions have hurt them. I am responsible for their pain. How will I ever be able to take their pain away? I need You to lift me up so that I may continue walking.
Dear Jesus, what made you get up and walk again? Why didn’t you give up instead of carrying on? It would have been so much easier. I ask, I question. But I already know the answer. It is because of Your great love for me that you continue, step by painful step.
Fourth Station: Jesus Meets his Sorrowful Mother
What did you say to Your Mother at that moment? Were You able to console her? As I look around me, there are people who are hurting sometimes because of my foolishness, but at other times because of my attempts to follow the truth. I can see the pain on their faces, and I am helpless. These people love me and care for me, and yet, I bring grief into their lives. What can I say to those who experience grief because of me?
Dear Jesus, I need to do more than to simply go through the motions. I have to be more aware of my actions and their consequences. I have to learn that I am not alone and that other people are affected by what I say and do.
Fifth Station: Simon of Cyrene Helps Jesus Carry His Cross
I thought I could do it alone. I thought I knew it all, but I found out I did not. I feel so good when I have someone with whom to share my problems, a person who listens and shares my pains with me. You must have felt the same way.
Dear Jesus, I am happy that there are people who care. I didn’t think they would respond, and I thought they would not help. But when I needed them, they were there. Help me to be a friend especially to those in need. Teach me to respond with understanding and compassion. It is in giving myself that I find you.
Sixth Station: Veronica Wipes the Face of Jesus
It is so good to meet a person who is not afraid to love without counting the risks. There have been people in my life who love me in this way. How can I repay such love?
Dear Jesus, You knew how to repay Veronica’s act of love. Your gratitude was so great that You gave her the gift of Yourself. Give me the same sensitivity and the courage of Veronica so that I might always comfort those who suffer, defend the truth and oppose injustice. Renew in me the sense of responsibility to work toward reconciliation and peace, to put love into practice.
Seventh Station: Jesus Falls the Second Time
I knew it was wrong. I knew it was going to hurt me and others, but I did it anyway. I have no excuse. I have such a long way to go!
Dear Jesus, You are the only one who can change me. I want to change. I desire it. Please help me to get up and continue walking! Let me be faithful to Your example and Your love. Thank you for showing me how to keep rising every time I fall.
Eighth Station: Jesus Meets the Women of Jerusalem
When I am down I want everyone to be down with me. I want them to know what I am going through. I want their attention. It is so easy to forget the needs of others. It is so difficult to reach out when we are hurting. It is so hard for us to make time for others.
Dear Jesus, even though You were suffering, You took time to reach out to the women. Your heart went out to them. You did not blame them for what was happening to you. You did not waste time feeling sorry for Yourself. Help me to make a personal commitment to better myself and work for the betterment of others.
Ninth Station: Jesus Falls a Third Time
Why is this happening to me? What have I done to deserve this? I feel so disappointed and so angry. I have had enough! When will it end? Why is no one reaching out to me? Who will be able to console me? Where is God when I need Him?
Dear Jesus, how many times must I fall before learning that You are carrying my burdens with me? Your pain was much greater than mine, and You did not give up on me. You got up and continued. Please give me the courage to do the same. Imprint in my heart and mind the memory of Your Passion. Help me to develop a life of prayer so that I may offer everything I do in honor of Your Passion.
Tenth Station: Jesus is Stripped of His Garments
Do I ever think of You when I deprive others of their dignity, self-respect, self-worth? I am so ready to take advantage of the vulnerability of others and to expose their nakedness for my own pleasure. I do not stop to consider the embarrassment I may cause, just as long as I can have what I want for myself. At times I am not even concerned with the feelings of others. I think of myself as coming first. When I do this I am harming others instead of emptying myself of my own pride, greed, and selfishness.
Dear Jesus, whom would I see if I looked into the mirror? How could I have disfigured Your image so much? Would anyone recognize You in me? Help me to see You in others. Help me to grow in such a way that they can see You in me as well.
Eleventh Station: Jesus is Nailed to the Cross
This is our meeting place; this is our appointed time. We meet in those who are bound by prejudice and their environment. We meet in the sick, the oppressed and the hungry. We meet in the hate and violence. We meet in the injustices and the inhumane treatment of those who are weak and helpless. We feel bound by the nails of greed, pride, and selfishness.
Dear Jesus, we are all mortally wounded. We are all pierced through by our inability to save ourselves. You are our only hope! Teach us the sacredness of all life. Help us to respect each other knowing that every one of us is precious and beautiful in Your sight.
Twelfth Station: Jesus Dies on the Cross
It is all over….finished. What a way to end! All my hopes, expectations and dreams have come to nothing. I am asked to die and let go of my greed, my pride, my lack of love, patience, and kindness. I am asked to share all that I have with those who have not. I am asked to be present and to serve those who are in need. All the hurts and pains I have received I am asked to forgive and forget. All the hurts and pains I have inflicted on others — I must ask for their forgiveness and mercy. The time has come for me to reach beyond myself, beyond my own feelings, and beyond my own poor vision.
Dear Jesus, what have I done to You? I have crucified You by my sins. Give me the wisdom to understand that when I refuse to recognize You as my God, I crucify You; when I refuse to obey the Holy Spirit prompting me from within, I crucify You; when I refuse to love my brothers and sisters, I crucify You; when I live only for myself without concern for the needs of others, I crucify You; when I seek my own selfish desires instead of seeking You, I crucify You. Give me the Faith to believe that even though I have sinned, You forgive me. Give me the Hope to believe and trust in Your love. Into Your hands I commend my life.
Thirteenth Station: The Body of Jesus is Taken Down from the Cross
I have had the courage to crucify You and watch You die. Will I have the courage to hold Your torn Body in the poor, the sick, and the rejected? Will I have the compassion to hold Your Body in those I find difficult to love? Will I have the courage to love myself as You have loved me?
Dear Jesus, I am grieved as I see and feel the wounds I cause. Can You heal them? My blindness and selfishness have caused You so much grief. And now, Lord, I only desire to place all of my burdens at the foot of Your Cross and to continue on as You would have me live at this time. Teach me to value the things that really matter, and to surrender those things that separate me from Your love. Help me, Lord, to know and to do Your holy will each day.
Fourteenth Station: The Body of Jesus is Laid in the Tomb
I have buried You many times by refusing to listen. I have buried You by refusing to love others. I have buried You in the noise I create and in the distractions I seek. I have buried You by running from the truth and living in my own illusions. I have buried You by submerging myself in the material things of this world. I have buried you under the dirt and soil of my own pride, greed, and selfishness.
Dear Jesus, I have silenced Your heart of flesh with the hardness of my heart of stone. I have tried to forget that You ever existed by burying You behind a stone. I have tried to forget Your love by pronouncing You dead! I have placed You out of my sight so I do not have to respond to the love that You have so generously given me. Strengthen me now, Lord, through the memory of this journey of love — these Stations of the Cross that I have just walked with you, fill my own emptiness with new hope. Rekindle in my heart the desire to roll away the stone of sin in my life; to remove each day the walls of pride and indifference; to live fully alive now in the joy and goodness of being Your disciple so that everyone may see that You are alive, Lord, and not dead; that you have risen and call us all to live in the glory of Your goodness and truth.