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February 11, 2015

Scripture:

Genesis 2:4b-9, 15-17
Mark 7:14-23

Reflection:

In the 1997 movie As Good As It Gets, a popular New York City author of romance novels named Marvin Udall, played so well by actor Jack Nicholson, has an obsession with cleanliness, with a compulsive daily hand washing ritual. His medicine cabinet is jam-packed with bars of soap.  During his daily hand-washing, he goes through several bars of soap, and then rinses his hands in blistering hot water.  He is now clean.  He touches no one, and no one touches him.

There’s something else about Mr. Udall.  He takes pleasure in insulting everyone with whom he comes in contact.  What’s more, he is the worst of listeners.  He tunes out to anyone or anything that may contaminate his world.  From his typewriter, Mr. Udall writes passionately about love.  Yet sadly, from his heart he spews garbage.  A powerful parable, this movie.

This parable, however, has been told before – by Jesus.  Some Pharisees, who carefully, even obsessively, observed the purification rituals of washing of hands and avoiding ritually unclean foods, criticized the disciples of Jesus.  Could Jesus not see that there were violating traditions of cleanliness mandated by the Torah?  The purpose of these rituals, spelled out in the Book of Leviticus, was to instill an awareness of God’s holiness and love for his people.  Yet sadly, from their hearts, these Pharisees spewed legalism and barriers to fellowship with God.

Jesus knew that even the best intentions can become corrupted.  Sometimes rituals can become substitutes for faithfulness to God while our hearts remain filthy by sin.  “There is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things that come out are what defile,” Jesus declares.  To whom does he speak?  He speaks to the Pharisees, to Mr. Udall, but most of all, to us.

 

Deacon Manuel Valencia is on the staff at Mater Dolorosa Passionist Retreat Center, Sierra Madre, California.

 

February 10, 2015

Scripture:
Genesis 1:20-2:4a
Mark 7:1-13

Reflection:
When we use the word “Incarnation”, we most often refer to the incarnation of God as a human being in the person of Jesus Christ, and rightly so. In that humble, selfless, and totally loving act, God entered our humanity and became one of us.

As I listen to the creation story, though, I am beginning see it as a story of incarnation, too. God’s love and the creative energy it generated were too strong to be contained, so God created the universe and all it holds as an expression of God’s very self. The highest form of this incarnation was when God created male and female in the divine image, and the ultimate form of incarnation was Jesus. Yet all of creation, the earth, the stars, the universe, and all living things are reflections of and indeed incarnations of God.

We know this intuitively when we experience God in the wonder of the animal kingdom, the unconditional love of a pet, the brilliance of a sunset, the majesty of mountains, or the vastness of the oceans. It is reinforced by scripture. In Wisdom, we read, “Foolish by nature were all who were in ignorance of God, and who from the good things seen did not succeed in knowing the one who is, and from studying the works did not discern the artisan…For from the greatness and the beauty of created things their original author, by analogy, is seen.” St. Paul picks this theme up in Romans, where he says, “For what can be known about God is evident to them, because God made it evident to them. Ever since the creation of the world, his invisible attributes of eternal power and divinity have been able to be understood and perceived in what he has made.”

In our scholarly tradition, Anthony of the Desert and one of our great theologians Thomas Aquinas said that the first book of scripture is the natural world which was created as an expression of God. To quote from Aquinas’ Summa Theologica: “God brought things into being in order that his goodness might be communicated to creatures, and be represented by them; and because his goodness could not be adequately represented by one creature alone, he produced many and diverse creatures, that what was wanting to one in the representation of the divine goodness might be supplied by another.”

This view changes everything. If all of creation and every creatures is an embodiment of God, then I need to treat everyone and everything with the respect due to Jesus himself.

Jesus was often upset with people who didn’t understand, who felt they could take advantage of others for their own good or who placed obeying every dot of the law above love and mercy. And certainly in the order of creation we need to devote great care to how we treat and think about every person we encounter. In addition, though, I think God must cry over how we treat the earth, the animals, the atmosphere, and all the forms of God’s incarnation. When we abuse them, we abuse God. Increasingly, too, those things which are good for the planet also happen to be good for the people who live on it. We can’t so easily separate the two.

My challenge, then is to broaden my perspective. By myself, I certainly can’t reverse global warming or stop the deforestation of rain forests. I can’t stop people from dumping garbage into our oceans and rivers, nor ensure that animal habitats remain undisturbed. But I can do something. And if we all do something, with the grace of God, we may have a larger impact than we ever thought possible. My challenge this month is to choose at least one issue I believe is important for the animals, creation, and my fellow human beings, and have the courage to act. Will you join me?

 

Amy Florian is a teacher and consultant working in Chicago.  For many years she has partnered with the Passionists.  Visit Amy’s website: http://www.amyflorian.com/.

February 9, 2015

Scripture:

Genesis 1:1-19
Mark 6:53-56

Reflection:

Patience! 

Patience! We have Gaudate and Letare Sudays that proclaim, ‘Rejoice!’ In the Anglican Church the last Sunday before Advent tells us, ‘Stir Up’. But none of our liturgies begin by saying, ‘Paciencia’, Patience.

As we begin our final full week before Lent this could be its invitation or admonition. We have no hints of spring yet, in fact most of the country continues to feel the icy grip of winter. Only the steady march of the calendar shows us the days of winter are lessening. Patience.

Our first reading today begins the beautiful story of creation, but Lent is only eight weekday readings away. We will arrive at Noah’s preparation to build the ark before we give way to the specially selected readings of Lent. In fact we will not come back to Genesis in our daily readings. But after the joy of creation, the sadness of the fall and its echo among the children of Adam and Eve, we will be awakened in the darkness of the Easter Vigil, reminded of the ‘happy fault’ of our first parents in the garden, and hear creation recreated in the Risen Christ. Be patient.

Today Mark is in transition. He recalls Jesus, miracles. Our Lord has come to proclaim the Kingdom not only in Word but also in Deed. We see the future when the disciples will go as missionaries doing the words and deeds of Jesus. Patiently the disciples are learning. Like them we too are always being schooled in our missionary calling.

There are times when Jesus seems impatient. He will say that he came to light a fire and how he wishes the blaze were ignited; that he has a baptism to receive, and what anguish he feels till it is over (Lk 12:49). Listening and discerning the Father’s will invites our patience. Maybe we hear Our Lord’s patience being expressed through gritted teeth?

Lent will call forth patience as we work its rich program and see how clever is the Spirit orchestrating in our personal lives, the lives of our families, friends and coworkers, and in the Church and beyond the unfolding of Salvation among us. Patience here is definitely called for so that we are receptive to the seeds of grace and let them germinate and sprout. Beginning this week we might think of ‘Patience’ as we are treated only to the beginning of Genesis, meet the Syro-Phoenician woman and a man who is deaf and mute, and hear the feeding of the four thousand. These days invite us to wait with patience because we are moving to the light, step by graced step, that will enable us understand the Pharisees’ desire for signs and find answers to the questioning of the disciples.

 

Fr. William Murphy, CP is the pastor of Immaculate Conception parish in Jamaica, New York.

February 8, 2015

Scripture:

Job 7: 1-4, 6-7
1 Corinthians 9:16-19, 22-23
Mark 1:29-39

Reflection:

In today’s Gospel, we see Jesus immersed in the work of healing.  Mark notes that after healing Simon’s mother-in-law, it is after sunset when ALL who were ill are brought to him.  In fact, the whole town came out!  Being human, Jesus must have been exhausted by the time he was able to lay down to rest a bit.  But what does He do?  He rises very early and goes off to pray.  Now, I don’t know about you, but when I have a late night, I often have trouble getting up in the morning.  And to get up before dawn to pray when I am so tired from the night before seems almost impossible.  But not for Jesus, who first thing is up and going off to pray.  Alone.  In a deserted place.  Jesus knew that his work depended on not just the renewal of his body through rest, but the renewal of his spirit through prayer.  This Gospel model of work and prayer is the foundation for a way of life for many religious communities, including the Passionists.  It’s often referred to as active contemplation.  A life that is about ministry and hard work, but also about taking the time to have a deep spiritual life, to meditate and pray, to contemplate the Word of God.

We are all called to have lives that reflect this principle as best we can.  Keeping the Sabbath is one way that to do this.  Our society places so much emphasis on hard work, on achievement, on reaching our potential and accomplishing much that we often forget our need to stop, to pray, to spend time with family, to just be quiet and listen for God’s voice.  Keeping the Sabbath can help us accomplish this at least one day a week!

Another way to bring prayer and contemplation into our lives is by making an annual retreat.  Like Jesus, we need to set aside time to go off to a quiet place, to be alone with God, to shut out all the distracting noises and bask in the silence, giving God the time and space to reach us.

It is so important for us to remember that while our work, providing for our families, and caring for others is important, it is essential to also make room for God.  In just 10 day, the season of Lent begins.  May this Lent serve all of us as a time for a renewed prayer life, for a new dedication to keeping the Sabbath and perhaps for scheduling a retreat.

 

Mary Lou Butler is a long-time friend and partner in ministry to the Passionists in California.

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Men’s Retreat Weekend, October 16 – 18, 2015
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Women’s Retreat Weekend, December 4-6, 2015
Men’s Retreat Weekend, January 8-10, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, January 15-17, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, January 22-24, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, January 29-31, 2016
Women’s Retreat Weekend, February 5-7, 2016
Married Couples’ Retreat, February 12-14, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, February 19-21, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend,  February 26-28, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, March 4-6, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, March 11-13, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, March 18-20, 2016
Baja Men’s Retreat Weekend, March 24-27, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, April 1-3, 2016
Women-s Retreat Weekend April 8-10, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, April 15-17, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend,  April 22-24, 2016
Men’s Retreat Weekend, April 29 – May 1, 2016
Women’s Retreat Weekend May 6-8, 2016
Women’s Retreat Weekend, May 6-8, 2016
Women’s Retreat Weekend, May 20-22, 2016
Men’s Memorial Weekend Retreat, May 27-29, 2016
Women’s Retreat Weekend, June 10-12, 2016
Married Couples’ Retreat, June 24-26, 2016
Spanish-Speaking Women’s Retreat August 5-7, 2016

2014-2015 Retreat Season

Baja Calif. Men’s Retreat, April 2-5, 2015
Men’s Retreat Weekend, April 10-12, 2015
Women’s Retreat Weekend, April 17 -19, 2015
Men’s Retreat Weekend, May 1-3, 2015
Women’s Retreat Weekend, May 8-10, 2015
Italian Men’s Retreat May 15-17 2015
Men’s AA Retreat May 22-24 2015
Women’s Retreat Weekend, May 29-31 2015
Women’s Retreat Weekend, June 19-21, 2015
Married Couples’ Retreat Weekend, June 26-28, 2015
Women’s AA Recovery Retreat, July 17-19 2015
Spanish Women’s Retreat, August 1-3 2015

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Mater Dolorosa’s Century Club  

Century Club LogoWhat is the Century Club? 

Mater Dolorosa has been blessed for over 25 years with the support of generous Century Club Members.  What began in 1986 as a means for supporting enhancements to our retreat facilities, has flourished into a well-established group of steady, loyal and generous benefactors whose contributions are dedicated to the maintenance and improvement of Mater Dolorosa as a place especially conducive to meeting the Lord.

Please scroll down to fill out our form to join Mater Dolorosa’s Century Club.

Who are the Members?
Century Club members are individuals or married couples who are retreatants or friends of Mater Dolorosa and who desire to share in the retreat ministry of the Center by making on-going financial commitment to the work of the Passionists.  Membership is for one year and coincides with the retreat center fiscal year of July 1 through June 30.

How are the Proceeds Used?
The proceeds from the Century Club are used for the maintenance and refurbishing of the Retreat Center and grounds, keeping it always a place where people can find a calm, relaxing and prayerful atmosphere that is conducive to spiritual growth.

MDRC VerandaWhat are some examples of projects contributed to with Century Club funds?

 

  • A prayer porch was created at the end of the west wing.
  • The lobby was refurbished for use as a reception area and for retreat registration.
  • New kitchen equipment was purchased including a refrigerator and convection oven.
  • The veranda on the east end of the retreat center was created as a quiet, beautiful area for reflection during personal time at the weekend retreats.

What are the benefits of membership?
The most important benefit of membership is the knowledge that your contribution is being used to further the retreat ministry at Mater Dolorosa.  

  • Weekly remembrances in Masses and prayers.
  • An annual Mass and reception is held in honor of all Century Club members.
  • Each new Century Club member receives a Century Club pin.
  • Century Club members receive recognition at weekend retreats.

What are the Century Club levels of giving?
There are six levels of giving in the Century Club:

  • Donor Level                $100 to $249.99
  • Sponsor Level             $250 to $499.99
  • Patron Level               $500 to $999.99
  • Ambassador Level      $1,000 to $2,499.99
  • Advocate Level           $2,500 to $4,999.99
  • Steward Level             $5,000 or more

What are the obligations of membership?
Members of the Century Club agree to donate $100 or more a year in addition to their retreat weekend donation and to remember the Passionist retreat work in prayer.

Can Century Club payments be made throughout the year?
Yes, Century Club payments can be spread throughout the year at your convenience.  Acceptable payments are MasterCard, Visa, Cash or Check and can be made by calling the retreat center, via mail or through our secure website.   We do not send reminders, but we will keep accurate records of your payments.

How can I join the Century Club?
Membership in the Century Club is available to anyone interested in the Passionist retreat ministry at Mater Dolorosa.  We have three convenient ways for you to join: online, by phone or mail:

  • Scroll down to fill out our form to join Mater Dolorosa’s Century Club.
  • Call the retreat center at 626-355-7188.
  • Download and mail our form: Ways to Give Donor Form


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